In the
journey of life, you meet so many people, you can’t really reckon. Some become
a part of your life and some rather part ways. Out of the multitude, some
secure a special place in your heart and some just mind bogglingly irritate you
and leave no stone unturned in becoming an addition to your hit list. However
my only concern about people is, do they really change? They say time changes
people, really....? We need to give time sometime for changes to occur, for
wounds to heal, for hearts to mend, but time changes people? - is something I
really doubt!
Some people,
who you really adore, might just carry a facade, making you trust them. And
later on when you see their true colours, you feel they have changed, but the
reality is they might have been the same throughout, you just drew a better
picture outta them. And the perception is time changes people! You fool
yourself with things and draw your own conclusions blaming time &
situation. Worst is, it breaks your heart. Someone you once loved and trusted
leaves you with a sour taste, it hurts for sure, but moving away from them is
the only good you can do to yourself. It becomes difficult sometimes and leaves
you a little shaken, but leaving them alone in their world of haughtiness will
make you feel better. No point giving a person so much love, affection &
respect when he/she’s not worth it. Swagger is the only jewel they carry &
adorn themselves with, leave them with it! Look around for new people and start
a new lease of life. That's how it should be!
People change
with different experiences they encounter their life’s way; I don’t think it
has anything to do with time, blame yourself, not time! Time never tells you to
be good or bad with someone; you change and evolve gradually into something
depending on your own mantras or idiosyncrasies of life. Some change for good
and some bad, time didn't tell you to be good or bad ever; you chose to be
either of them!
Anyway such
people shake you, tear you apart & in turn, you become desperate to
transform your own life, revealing another layer of you that survives against
all odds (suddenly you discover you are a superman or superwoman :P). Give
yourself another chance to live and let go of people who love their haughtiness
– because they only value themselves and use others as a commodity. And yeah, you can't forget change
is the only thing constant. Let bygones be bygones! Start afresh because
a kickass comeback is awaiting you!
